"Im jus sayin"....

Hi, Im La'Rhonda and Im addicted to being opinionated. Ok sooo I have a slight idea about where this came from. THANKS ALOT MOM!!! I don't really know if it's a good thing or a bad thing. But I know its not something that I don't want to change! Im quick to say whatever comes to my mind and consequences don't really exist to me or it could be that I just don't care about them. Its something about my soul being held captive by the rim of my mouth while my tounge is begging and screaming :LET ME OUT to tell that girl that she was indeed WRONG for wearing those little shorts that clearly shows her newly-developed and unattractive cellulite, and to let that guy know that he has no chance in hell with me, or to let my friend know that he needs to get rid of his lame girlfriend (who will remain nameless) that has nothing to offer him. So you see people, being overly opinated isn't all that negative. Because at the end of the day I feel incandescently FREE and at ease!!!! Lol. I'd rather tell the truth and clear my mind, than hold a lie and have a wondering would've, could've, should've conscious. You feel me? But guys? I hope I don't seem like a total b**ch who has no self-control. Because Im really not a b**ch... I jus "lack" self-control, or thereof. LOL =)

Double the pleasure, Double the Fun!

So some of you may or may not be aware that I am twin! And unlike fashion, celebrities and college, being a twin is NOT overrrated! We get to say and do things that even bestfreinds can't do! Being in the same wound together for 9months kinda made us inseperateable! She's the single most important person in my life. Before my bestfriends, mother and boyfreind... my twin is numero uno! Our "twin(ship)" is deeper than any brother or sister relationship. And I don't care who begs to differ!

Im sooooooo blessed that God gave me another half! My life is awesome because of her!

I love her!

I love her!

Give me Liberty or give me death!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I will never stop being opinionated!!!! I will never become sensitive to someones emotions just because they can't handle the truth! Nor will I become a dark cloud of silence, who forces herself to say only positive things just because one isn't use to hearing the reality of things. People continuosly tell me how mean and insensitive they think I am. But thats bull! I don't go around ambushing my opinions and thoughts onto people, and I certainly don't randomly blurt out negative things just to get reactions out of people. I only speak my opinion when one gets out of place, or when someone asks me my opinion or when a person puts the spotlight on themselves (which to me implies that their asking for my opinion, lol). Nonetheless, I think that more people need to be like me (More expressive). God didnt give us tounges and lips just for sucking d**k you know? I seriously feel like our opinions and expressions are one of the few things that we have control over... And got damn it, Im gonna use them! Can I get an AMENNNNNN!!!!! :)

"Boy Romance Me"

Soo this isn't my usual blogging style. I never highlight people or promote company shoes, clothing or music, ect. But I felt it necessary to switch roles just this once!


My bestfriend Alexis is an upcoming fashion designer at The Art Institute of Philadelphia!!!! I have so many high hopes for her, and not just beacuse she's my bestfriend, but because she's really talented! And unlike other wann-a-be fashion designers, she actually works extremely hard and dedicates alot of time to her work (trust me I know, because she never calls me, lol). She is currently interning in New York with a fashion company named "Taya Jeans" and is working on her OWN 4 garments in 8-pieces collection called "Boy Romance Me"! (When her collection is complete I promise I'll post some pictures of it). Not only does she make clothes, she also sketches and designs her own work and models other upcoming designers clothing. It makes me feel so good to be able to be apart of her growth. And I love thats she's happy at what she's doing. And aside from all of that, she's gorgeous!!!!! So guys, be on the look out for her! She's gonna be HUGE! (She hates when I say that, but I don't care) LOL! Love you Lex! :)

"Butt" Wait!!!!

I have a "little" butt... cute though! Pretty round at certain angles and my boyfriend likes it, lol. I used to despise how small my butt was. I never understood how I was as black as night but missed the "black" big butt factor. Most of my freinds have big butts that NEVER go without notice. "Damn girl your butt phat as shiz!" (and of course, he's tapping the guy beside him while pointing and staring with hanging bottom lips). Seems like most guys require [p]hat butts now-a-days before they even consider to talk to a girl. But is that a good thing?? What if you didn't have that [p]hat butt? Would he try to get to know you based on your personality or other physical aspects? Doubt it. You see, most guys don't give a eff about your goals, your morals, your ambitions and/or your personality. They only care about how good you can eff and how far back "it" can bounce. Pardon me?? But what happened to how "wet" it is or just simply how well you can f**k!! Lol. I mean I totally missed the memo people!! And once again, I hope people don't get the WRONG impression and assume that Im jealous of girls with [p]hat butts, or that Im "anti" [p]hat a**es. Because if the truth be told, Im grateful for my little butt and I do no wish for it to exceed pass this limit. I don't want guys staring and pointing at my body or trying to get my number just becuz my butt is sitting "right" in some jeans.

And besides.... everybody's butt is [p]hat when the "lights" go out ;)

On June 30 of this year, I wrote wat some would say was a controversial blog about my opinions and some 'facts' about sororities and fraternities. And since then, someone who I consider[ed] myself friends with, completely changed (for the worse)! Sooo he's on my school campus (and I won't say any names or wat fraternity he's in), but I will say that we do see eachother often. It used to be hugs and hello's, now its no eye contact and a fast pace high school nerd walk [which Im assuming is to avoid me]. Its funny how writing a blog can prove the point that you were trying to make in the first place. So thank you mister. You were my lab rat and my Frankienstein. Thanks for being that frat guy that I "did'nt" see. And please don't think for one second that this blog is written in vein or hostility, because it's quite the contrary. We were never that 'close' for me to be upset, and even if we were, I seriously doubt that I would lose any sleep over this transformation of yours.

Ironically enough, at the end of that June 30 blog piece, I said "If I offended any greeks or orginazations, I DON'T apologize. Because if you're offended, its probably because this refers to you.".... 'chuckles and sighs'. Well I guess this refers to the guy Im writing about now. And guess wat??? I still DON'T APOLOGIZE...

Soo my old "lab rat" is dead.... I think I need another one. Any volunteers?

Self re-assurance check

My forehead is abnormally big... my nose is too ethnic and my hair is way too course.I snore (at the the beginners satge). Im 100% African American and yet.... I have no butt. If I didn't shave I would be as hairy as big foot, I have an over bite the size of Mexico. And thats just my physical apect. I tend to lie at the wrong time and can be quite the manipulator. I over analyze the simplest things making everything more difficult than what it really is, I don't really know who I am yet, I have semi anger issues and can be too opinionated and blunt at times. But Im self-complacent with all of me!!! I love every part of my body inside and out! I don't want to evolve or change and I don't think I need to. Im so glad God made me a "hairy big-nose liar". Im La'Rhonda Yvette Swales =)